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Wednesday 27 March 2013

Fake Friends vs. Real Friends



 A friend is a person who you call upon good and even bad times. Someone you love and trust. A friend is someone who gives you total freedom to be yourself.

 Below are 3 of the many types of friends/friendships that exist but I have summarized it and given my opinion on what or how people act, in a friendship.




1) Friends who eat with you: These are the friends who when you have money or food, they are always there with you to spend lunch breaks at work and school with you or weekends over your place. They are only your friends because of the “Assets” you might own. You may come from a wealthy family: no financial problems whatsoever and have many friends, not because of the person you are, personality wise, but because of your family’s status. Or it may be that you always have money on you and your “friends” associate with you because of that.

But then one day, you have no money? What happens to your friends then?
       

      2) Fake smiles: There will always be that person who you secretly hate, or secretly hates YOU. The person that always whispers things behind your back; wishing that you fail in everything that you do and is constantly trying their best in turning your other friends against you. That is a 'Judas' character right there!
      
      3) True friends: These are the people you should feel safe to trust with your deepest secret, the people who will always be there for you despite what you two may be going through at the time. The people that don’t judge you because of what your parents’ occupation may be, that don't judge you because of your past mistakes. These people are your true friends. Everyone is entitled to having a trustworthy friend, that will back them up in the scariest of situations.


Its really hard to differentiate your real friends from your fake friends these days, because we all seem to be taking secret "facade" lessons, and we're constantly out for destruction. It doesn't really help, living in a dog eat dog world, with so many opportunities so hard to grasp on, but sticking around those that push you hard, the gents that always have an extra blunt for you, and the ladies that will constantly have your back when dealing with 'guy trouble' , those are the REAL friends to have around!!


Y o l i 'D
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