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Saturday 20 September 2014

Public Display of Affection

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What is and what isn't appropriate? Do you find yourself feeling uncomfortable from the publicly displayed affection of others or do you find yourself as the 'perpetrator' at hand who throws PDA at everyone's face?

Being in an affectionate relationship is, for some loyal people, a two way thing that can make couples feel all sorts of nice and sweet things and may also leave them wanting to display all these nice and sweet things, at ALL TIMES. It's Sickening right!?

LOL, I'm not a hater of relationships but I am most certainly not a campaigner for PDA.
PDA's often elicit a wide range of reactions from people of all ages and cultures and if you're not sure whether or not an action is okay in any social setting, you should probably hold off until you are in a more private situation. Wouldn't it be nicer to have people rooting for you rather than running from you?

I know girls that at EVERY given chance make it known that the guy next to them is 'taken' or is 'theirs'.. Giving off awkward vibes such as wanting to nibble on the guy's ear or passing comments that are totally of topic and are really about making a statement to those around them. It raises the question of whether these girls are in fact happy and secure in their relationship(s) or are just doing everything for show.

I have heard that reasons why people, women specifically, constantly seek attention from their partners in public is because at home they don't get given the attention they seek or that is necessary. That it just sad.

But women aren't the only one's that perpetrate PDA, men are just as guilty. Men have this never dying need of wanting to show possession of 'their' women. I think the grossest form of PDA Ive seen was this couple at Northgate Mall two years ago or so, and the guy had his hands on his partners ASSets, groping her and kissing her neck and you could clearly see how uncomfortable she was, I'd be too from all the looks she got from on-lookers.

Note to man: Honey, relax.. all of this (pointing at body) is ALL yours, don't be showing niggers out here how you like to tear the cherry out.

As Masechaba Lekalake said, it literally becomes sex now, when you have people panting and heavy breathing and all while KISSING in public. A few stolen kisses are the best forms of PDA - they are unexpected and most of the time people arent even looking. The three basic's of PDA that we all seek are often the affectionate invasions of space - walking arm in arm, a kiss goodbye(I feel like this is MANDATORY ☺) and holding of hands.

Of course ke, there'll be others that will seek more than just the basics and will expect you to jump hoops for them to show the world who exactly your with  and those are usually the side chicks but shame they don't usually have much of a choice, especially when 'Bae' is eyeing other women at Neighborgoods in your presence :"D ..

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Basically this article can be summarized down to #PhantsiNgeExplicitPDAPhantsi !!

Thank you..
@Yoli_Dyantyi